I have just found out from my boyfriend’s online search history that he has looked up men dressed in lingerie. Does this mean that he’s attracted to this? Or that he is not straight? I am really freaked out and confused.
On the contrary: be thankful that you are with a sexually curious person who may also be wonderfully creative and experimental. Many men enjoy dressing up in female attire. This does not mean they are gay – cross-dressers can be gay, straight or bisexual. For example, some heterosexual men just really like the feel of female clothing – soft, silky and so on – and have erotic sensations while wearing it. Your boyfriend may also have been researching this out of a passing interest.